About Lou
I was a primary school teacher for 20 years. I loved teaching and being in a classroom but every year there were some children in my class who simply couldn’t get to grips with reading, writing and spelling. It was hard to watch them struggle through lessons involving literacy, knowing that they couldn’t do what their friends were doing. Some took avoiding action producing very little work and others were disruptive. I didn’t believe they were just being lazy or naughty. I knew there had to be a reason for their behaviour.
I saw frustrated children who, however hard they tried, couldn’t make sense of the written words; anxious children who feared literacy lessons and angry children who were most angry at themselves. I realised that most of them were bright and often very creative. In lessons that didn’t involve reading or writing many of these children shone, explaining their ideas in words, making things, solving puzzles or excelling at sports. It wasn’t that they ‘wouldn’t’ work, the fact is they just ‘couldn’t’ work if it involved literacy.
I cared about and wanted the best for every single child that I taught. I went out of my way to produce activities for them that they could cope with, and often spent extra time with them at lunch or break times if they wanted me to, but their progress was still painfully slow. It didn’t matter how often I praised them or highlighted their talents; they didn’t believe in themselves and it broke my heart to hear these children calling themselves ‘stupid’, ‘thick’ or ‘rubbish’.
Over time I became more and more curious about what was happening for them and I tried many different things to see if I could help. Some of my ideas worked, like allowing one easily distracted, dyslexic child to listen to music on headphones as he worked, or letting reluctant writers use multicoloured pens, a different colour for each word. The children would sit and work more willingly and calmly, and even feel proud of themselves, but they still didn’t really improve their grasp of reading and writing.
Then I came across Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP). I was instantly fascinated and as I read more and more about it, I realised that this might help to answer my questions. I was fortunate enough to meet and train with somebody who was using certain NLP techniques to help children with spelling and reading. I applied what I’d learned in my classroom and the results were great, so much so that I left full-time teaching to study NLP in depth.
Over the next years, whilst I taught part-time, I studied, researched, developed a process and started working with children and adults one-to-one. The results of blending NLP with my teaching knowledge and experience were extraordinary. I could not have been happier as my students transformed from people who believed they would never read, write and spell, many of whom told me that they were ‘stupid’ and some of whom were depressed, to happy, confident readers, many of whom also enjoyed writing and most importantly had self-belief.
I also trained teachers and teaching assistants as well as lecturing trainee teachers. Using a blend of 26 years teaching experience and 13 years NLP practice, I positively transform their experience of literacy.
Now I work with children and adults all over the world ... I can help you too!
I live in a beautiful part of Sussex, with my partner, in a very quiet spot where I really enjoy my garden, especially growing as much as possible in my veg patch and sitting with friends around a fire in the evenings.
I love walking with Tilly, my dog; sunrise at the beach is a favourite way to start the day. On high tide mornings we explore the local woods, or spot deer around the fields near the house. A few years ago, we tackled the stunning Southwest Coast path and I’ve also been lucky enough to have trekked in the Himalayas.
Although I’m mostly content to be at home, I also love adventures, travel and the chance to try new things which in the past has included living in Thailand, riding motorbikes and being in a band.
Coastal walks with Tilly
Visiting Thailand
Glorious Sunset in Sussex
Trekking in the Himalayas
Visit to Nepal
Enjoying the garden with Tilly
Our favourite coastal walk
Tilly at Sunset
What My Clients Say ...
“Our youngest boy, Seth, has just turned 10 and has always really struggled with reading and writing. He’s dyslexic and we now also have a Meares-Irlen syndrome diagnosis.
Previous attempts to help Seth with reading usually resulted in temper tantrums, tears and exhaustion for all parties. Progress at school had pretty much stopped, with Seth refusing to take part in group reading activities and all areas of schoolwork and behaviour were suffering.
We first discussed working with Lou after meeting in a social setting, with Lou being sure she could offer some help to Seth. I was sceptical at first, as Seth has never been receptive to additional help as he doesn’t want to be “different” from his classmates. Some of the methods seemed a bit “out there” for me, with Seth creating an imaginary chameleon that could magically stop the letters moving about on the page.
Now, after working with Lou, Seth’s progress has been amazing. He’s reading with me every night (books of his choosing with us sharing the reading). His confidence with reading has been the biggest change. He isn’t scared to have a go now, whereas before a full page of text would have been too intimidating.
It’s made such a difference to Seth that it actually has brought tears to my eyes. I’m so happy that a whole new world had been opened up for him. Seth’s behaviour at school has improved and we are now looking forward to Seth catching up with his classmates, as he is very bright and has a real thirst for knowledge.
Lou’s work with Seth has given him enough of a leg up to get out of the rut he was in. She listened to him and took the time to understand where he was struggling and introduced techniques to overcome the problems. He still has a long way to go, but now he is embracing the learning, it means that he can make progress every day at home and at school. I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend Lou to families that are facing issues with dyslexia and other learning issues.”
Danny
"Feeling amazed and a bit overwhelmed and so very grateful!...
I have been struggling with dyslexia all my life! Although I have worked hard at it and can read and write. I struggled to remember or make sense of anything I just read. Today I spent some time with an amazing woman Lou Barnes who has been fixing this using NLP. I knew others could see stuff with reading I just didn't get. So, I went with an open mind. Lou was able to help me unlock and open something that just wasn't there before. Then it just all fell into place and beautifully flowed. It was quite emotional. The black and white words on the page that I struggled with became a story unfolding in my head that I could see, understand and remember! I'm still overwhelmed as I didn't realise it was like that. It only happened today but I'm so inspired now I know what is possible.
If you, or you know of anyone that is struggling, please, please let them know it doesn't have to be like that. It’s so simple it’s like a magic switch that works!
Thank you just isn't enough.”
Louise R.
“I was amazed at how quickly Louise identified the root cause of my son's difficulties with spelling.
She has given us some techniques to unlock his potential. He has been less fearful of spelling since we saw her. He also says that the words no longer jump around on the page when he's reading".
Tim's Mum
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